How We Do Things… Is How We Do EVERYTHING
“Your Attitude Determine Your Altitude.”
Well, I couldn’t agree more with this quote. الحمد لله… this year mark my 5th year in the business, and throughout these years, I have coached many business associates from various backgrounds. And I have witnessed successes; people rising from zero to hero as well as people who didn’t progress as much. Both success or “failure” in the business in my experience, have one common factor. It is none other than: ATTITUDE.
Each and everyday, as I’ve coached my proteges, I can almost predict which one of them will succeed and which one will fail. It is no surprise at all. So, let me just share with you, 5 ATTITUDE based on my experience that can lead you to whatever you dreams are.
#1 – PASSION
Someone WITHOUT passion is actually someone who live without reason. They just let things passed them by, let others decide how they should live their life and always wonder what happen to them rather than makes things happen! Like Zombie. To have a PASSION, one must have A DREAM. And good news is dreaming is FREE! So Dare to Dream! There is no limitation to what we can achieve if we dare to dream and believe in our dreams. I am myself a housewife with just RM14.60 in my saving accounts, living in PPRT flat and drive a cute Kelisa when I started this business, yet I always believe one day I will travel the world and see the beauty of Allah’s creation!
“A dream doesn’t become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.”
#2 – PERSEVERANCE
There are people that I have met, who are so passionate to achieve their dream, but only for a period of time. In Malays we called this “Hot Hot Chicken Sh*t”.
Ever heard this saying, “When Things Get Tough, The Tough Gets Going”? Thats what separate people who achieve success and those who quit prematurely. Quitters NEVER Win, and Winners NEVER Quit. Period.
“Show me someone who has done something worthwhile, and I’ll show you someone who has overcome adversity. – Lou Holtz”
#3 – SACRIFICE
Know what is the price we need to pay for our dreams… AND Pay the Price! As simple as that. If you want something worthwhile, you have to pay the price. And the currency is sacrifice. Time. Money. Sweat and Blood.
Some people came to me, ask me to be their mentor, ask me to help and guide them so they can achieve what I have achieved, and yet… whenever its time to pay the price… they are not willing to sacrifice their time (leisure or family), not willing to work hard, not willing to face the rejections, not will to go the extra miles, not willing to humble down and learn from others, not willing to spend their time learning from PERSONAL COACHING, FREE CLASSES and SEMINARS that we provide and shy away from their mentor guidance.
“SUCCESS is not for the faint of heart.”
For people with these ATTITUDE, I wish you all the best and one day May Allah provide you with the heart of steel.
#4 – NEVER SAY NEVER
Translation: For each one are successive [angels] before and behind him who protect him by the decree of Allah . Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves. And when Allah intends for a people ill, there is no repelling it. And there is not for them besides Him any patron.
No one can ever change you unless you change your attitude. And you must always be willing to continue to struggle, to fight the hardship until you succeed. Life is full hardship, it will always beat you down, and no matter how hard you fall if you keep getting back up, you will never fail. Never Say Never.
#5 – GRATITUDE
There is always two side of a coin, and two ways to look at everything that happen in our life. As a Muslim, ALWAYS BELIEVE things happen for a reason, and things happen the way Allah want it to happen. Even if the worst thing happen to us, there must be a blessing in it, a lesson to be learned or Kaffarah to cleanse our wrong doings of the past.
ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL. For the more gratitude we shows, the more grateful things we shall receive.
Translation: And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, ‘If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.’ “
So guys, success is no mystery. If you have the right attitude, success will just be a matter of time. And regardless what your background, history or current situation, if you don’t have the right attitude, BUT you are WILLING to CHANGE your negative attitude, InsyaaAllah, بإذن الله, you will be SUCCESSFUL.
Last but not least, if you NEED a Personal Coach who dares to mould you into a successful business person, come and talk to me. Lets start Living with Passion, Persevere, Willing to Sacrifice Today’s Leisure for Tomorrow’s Pleasure, Never Say Never and Always Be Grateful.
Lets Get to the TOP!